Being a nice person is a good thing, you’re always there for
everyone, you care about people’s feelings, you don’t like being rude with
anyone, even if you’re honest-like me- but still nice, you manage to say
what you want to say in a way that is somehow rather acceptable
But the problem is, being nice means you always have to
forgive people, over and over again. Even if they repeat the same
mistake, because when you don’t, they start blaming you and make feel guilty in
the process.
It also means people taking advantage of that, because you’re
nice; you’ll always do stuff for them, forgive them (I know that I’m
repeating my self- oh well) and Always putting everything and everyone
ahead of you.
it means that whatever happens, you should be the ‘good’ one, that concludes
you always being the strong one, that you will always have to SUCK IT UP
and move on pretending that nothing bothers you-even if it does.
You reach a point where you’ve had Enough, where the
slightest thing upsets you, where you become over sensitive over the tiniest
thing.
That’s when people start blaming
you.
But you will NOT always shut up, you have to speak
out for yourself, can’t talk well? Write it down for them to read, send
it to them, point out that no one can always walk all over you, that you will
NEVER allow that to happen again.
Start to prioritize what’s important and what’s not, who you
still consider as a best friend and who’s not, what you care about and what
not, ‘cause you have to let go of the latter
and if you have trouble figuring that out, give each of them a chance or two, try things out and see how it will turn out to be, if they fail you, let them go, if not, hold on tight to them.
and if you have trouble figuring that out, give each of them a chance or two, try things out and see how it will turn out to be, if they fail you, let them go, if not, hold on tight to them.
Being nice is a good thing,
but not always nice.
Remember to put yourself
first. Don’t push it hard on yourself to please anyone
