Sunday, March 11, 2012

Question Time =D


the accidental blog tagged me to answer some questions, and here we go :D

Rules:
1. You must post the rules
2. Answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post and then create eleven new questions to ask
3. Tag eleven people and link to them on your post. if you can's just tell some people about it and let them answer anywhere (even their facebook will suffice)
4. Let them know you’ve tagged them!



And here are the questions i'm supposed to answer

  1. You can never live without………….


    ummm..that's a tricky question, but i'll go neutral and say.......AIR

  2. You’re never too old to………………..?

    eat lollipops, SWING :D
  3. When was the last time you conquered your fear, or did an act of bravery?


    i don't actually remember, honestly
  4. When was the last time you laughed your heart out?

    Today, i always laugh haha

  5. What inspires you, or pushes you forward?

    what pushes me forward; is doing something i haven't done in a good while, as simple as it might be, as long as it's not on my daily routine. that gives me a boost, take for an example an outing with friends anywhere

  6. Would you rather go back in time, jump to the future, or stay in the present? Why?

    i don't like this present, i don't know what's going to happen in the future as well
    so i might pick going back in time, some time in the middle ages, when females get to be treated like royalty, no matter what their position is
    or right before i decided to join medschool ;)
  7. If you were to be someone else, who would you be?

    Demi Lovato, i always wanted to be a pop/rock star :D

    or due to the current circumstances in Egypt, i might want to be some city official, so i can rule the country and make things right for a change
  8. If you were granted a single superpower, what would that be?

    i always wanted to be able to read minds, or fly :)

  9. What is the one job that would never suit you?

    Arabic teacher, i suck at arabic and explaining things to people, combine those two together and you'll be having a hell in heels "hopefully i'll be able to wear heels then. lol"

  10. What is your favorite dessert?

    anything involving chocolate, or cheese cake


  11. What is your current mobile ringtone?

    A drop in the ocean by Ron Pope





    Now it's my turn to ask
    to whoever i tell or read this , please answer. i don't know how to tag people in here haha

    1. What do you like doing on your free time?
    2. what's the thing that you regret doing?
    3. if you woke up and find yourself of the opposite sex, what would you do?
    4. your 'like a boss' moment
    5. if you like someone, and you want them to know, what would you do?
    6. your favorite song,Tv-show, movie, ice cream flavor and color
    7. do you like the way you are now, your life? yes or no with reasons
    8. your celebrity crush/ your favorite celebrity
    9. what do you hate the most in people?
    10. who's your role model?
    11. the most embarrassing moment ? *Grins*




Friday, January 20, 2012

Nice is not always Nice


Being a nice person is a good thing, you’re always there for everyone, you care about people’s feelings, you don’t like being rude with anyone, even if you’re honest-like me- but still nice, you manage to say what you want to say in a way that is somehow rather acceptable

But the problem is, being nice means you always have to forgive people, over and over again. Even if they repeat the same mistake, because when you don’t, they start blaming you and make feel guilty in the process.

It also means people taking advantage of that, because you’re nice; you’ll always do stuff for them, forgive them (I know that I’m repeating my self- oh well) and Always putting everything and everyone ahead of you.
 
it means that whatever happens, you should be the ‘good’ one, that concludes you always being the strong one, that you will always have to SUCK IT UP and move on pretending that nothing bothers you-even if it does.
You reach a point where you’ve had Enough, where the slightest thing upsets you, where you become over sensitive over the tiniest thing.

That’s when people start blaming you.

But you will NOT always shut up, you have to speak out for yourself, can’t talk well? Write it down for them to read, send it to them, point out that no one can always walk all over you, that you will NEVER allow that to happen again.
Start to prioritize what’s important and what’s not, who you still consider as a best friend and who’s not, what you care about and what not, ‘cause you have to let go of the latter

and if you have trouble figuring that out, give each of them a chance or two, try things out and see how it will turn out to be, if they fail you, let them go, if not, hold on tight to them.


Being nice is a good thing, but not always nice.
Remember to put yourself first. Don’t push it hard on yourself to please anyone